I find it very rude for someone to just show up at my place unannounced! How do you just decide, well, I am going to pass through and see this woman today, without asking her or telling her in advance by the way… I have days I just want to be alone, enjoy my own company, sit around the house, walk about naked, even fart all day because no one is there hence no need to hold it in but no, some people just think it is okay to just show up!
In our culture, once you have a visitor it means you have to get up and start cooking. I stay alone and cooking happens at least three days a week at most. Now imagine having to start thinking of what to cook for this visitor, that’s if you even have food in the house to start of with! Then there are other issues like water and electricity. How will I even begin to start on a meal when I don’t have one of the two. See how inconvenient this is???
Now I simply have a policy where I don’t open the door if I’m not expecting anyone to visit. You will knock your knuckles off for all I care. There is less drama that way. Unless of course they send me a message or call to tell me they are by my door and have a bottle of red wine then maybe just maybe I will consider opening the door for them.
If you are one of those people who are in the habit of doing that, please stop it. Sometimes I simply do not want to entertain you, it’s draining and time consuming and most of all it pisses me off because I am one of those people who always calls days in advance before I decide to visit someone.
The ironic thing is that it’s the same culprits that always just randomly show up at my doorstep. STOP IT!!