PRIORITY : a thing that is regarded as more important than others.
I am one of those people who believes in planning almost everything. From what I am going to do from the moment I wake up, what form of exercise I will do that day, what I am going to wear, what I am going to eat, what I will do for my lunch break…generally how everything must go. I would like to believe it’s the same for everyone else because you can’t tell me you just go through your day without a plan on what you will do with your day. Okay, not everyone then but most people have a to do list, right?
Where is the problem exactly then, seeing that most people have to do lists that they work on day in and out? My problem is when people around me choose to make me number 50 on their to do list and expect me to jump at the drop of a hat when they feel it’s time for me to show up. (Fortunately for me I don’t take that nonsense lightly). We all make time for the things we love or things that are important to us. Here’s a good example; there is no way someone will call you to make a date at 8 pm and expect you to think that makes you special in any way. Someone who really wants to see you will tell you when the day starts not at some ungodly hour.
Know your worth and if you realise that someone is taking you for granted and not treating you the way you should be then I say to you DO NOT SETTLE FOR LESS. I know it all too well, I have been through this and I do not want to see anyone else going through it. Too many times we hope and wish that someone will one day see the light and put us first on their to do list. I wouldn’t wait to see how that ends because it always ends with you going further down their list of priorities. Be selfish with your time. This life is too short to be fighting for someones attention when you can be putting your time and effort into other productive things…like shopping and working on how you can get a better and mind blowing orgasm by yourself. It’s all about self love.
The long and the short of it learn to discern where you are wanted and where you are simply getting your time wasted. The moment you have to beg, plead, negotiate for someone’s love, time or affection is the moment you leave because you deserve nothing but the best!