I like to keep my blog as interactive as possible because I want the people who read my blog also feel a part of this journey. I posted a question on Twitter and asked my followers to respond and this is what I got.
@chaluva263 Love is not enough to sustain a relationship, it takes a lot more.
@iareTerry Money don’t buy loyalty.
@TinoNyandoro The thought of long term commitment scares me.
@ZaneleM_ That I wasn’t ready to be a girlfriend. I wasn’t ready for the commitment and dedication required.
@mangaliso21 I learnt that trust is like virginity; once lost it can never be regained.
@nyashanekutenda Not to take people for granted.
@YoliSpice Dreams can be shattered and you learn from them to create new and improved dreams, after all life does goes on.
@ICallMeCharmzyy I need to learn how to be selfish.
@zedd_tahlz Once a cheater, always a cheater.
@Do_Mie_Son To be honest and open about your feelings and be real to yourself.
@_Vickie_M Love in its “purest” form is a beautiful thing but on the flip side it can enslave you to your partner.
@yard_aric Be honest…I lost the love of my life for not being honest.
@DESIGNER_ANDRE Be in a relationship with someone who respects,appreciates,supports your goals and passion in life at all times.
@rufaro_et To be careful of emotional blackmail /manipulation.
@itskfizzle I’m currently too selfish and immature for relationships.
@the_dimpled_one A person will treat you how you allow them to. Stick to your standards and you will be surprised
@tofunmi_ Love is not enough, really.
@stuntuya Our hearts crave companionship. Our minds never got the memo.
@kikkybadass I learnt that people will lie to get what they want ,I learnt how selfish humans can be at times,I learnt to love myself more.
@makholisa Sometimes God removes people so we meet better people.
The one lesson I learnt from past relationships is that I do not need to transform myself in order to be loved and accepted. The one made for me will love me just as I am, flaws and all.
Care to share your own lessons from your past relationships?