I was really trying to avoid blogging about anything concerning sex but I guess it was highly inevitable. Today I am sharing those things most women wish men knew but simply don’t tell them. My personal thoughts are points 1-10 and 30 and the rest of the points are from the women I asked. Here’s hoping no one takes offence but maybe takes notes instead and make sex something both you and your partner enjoy.
- It is not about the quantity but the quality of sex. Why are you trying to have 8 rounds of 2 minute sex?? One session of good sex is good enough and if you are doing things right and hitting the spot then by all means rest assured I am fine.
- Size does matter. For me that is, that motion for the ocean line doesn’t hold water. I am a big girl, I like big things.
- Sex in the dark? NO, switch on the light please I want to see what’s going on.
- If you have to ask “how was it” you know the sex was lousy.
- Do no keep asking me how it was; you are not ready for the truth.
- Just because the last woman you slept with liked anal sex does not mean the next woman does. Ask before trying to sneak your dick into my ass hole!
- I don’t fake orgasms, if I didn’t cum I didn’t cum, it is really that simple.
- Oral sex is a big turn on. Eat that pussy like it’s the cure for some life threatening disease! Note I said EAT not small little licks!
- Do not bite the clitoris! Just because it is shaped like a jelly bean it does not mean it was made for biting. That is a sensitive organ, be gentle.
- Don’t be lazy, put your back in it!
- Take off ALL your clothes. Why do you leave some clothes on? Socks, vest, take it off we want to see all your body parts.
- Screaming doesn’t mean we are enjoying it. It can mean one of three things. Maybe we just want to stroke your ego and make you think you are pumping us proper, we want you to stop or it’s actually painful. LOL
- We don’t always orgasm, but that’s okay. Do not make it a big deal because if you do we end up faking orgasms.
- Sex should not always be about a good fuck. Sometimes a woman wants some good old deep, delicious and slow love making.
- Change of scenery will definitely spice up the sex. The bedroom becomes boring. Sex in the shower anyone?
- We love surprises; introduce goodies like chocolate, strawberries, yoghurt, edible lingerie…
- Take a bath! Who do you want to climb on top of smelling like you were ploughing in a field all day?
- Sweat is a NO NO. Show up smelling divine and maybe a different cologne every now and again is a huge turn on.
- Do not be a selfish lover, wait for the woman to orgasm.
- Do not keep switching tempo. We do like variety BUT constantly changing tempo interrupts our flow. Worst time to switch is when we are about to orgasm. Do you have any idea what it takes to finally get an orgasm??? Do not tempt us to punch you in the face during sex!
- If a woman is not in the mood for sex she is not. No amount of parading in the room naked will change her mind.
- Foreplay is more than just sticking your fingers up her pussy.
- Enjoying sex does not make me a freak.
- Sex is meant to be fun.
- If you expect to get head you better wash up your dick properly!
- Women probably love sex more than men but our society has raised us in a way where showing that labels you a loose woman.
- Most women are shy to initiate sex but in her mind she has ripped off your clothes and done all sorts of unimaginable things!
- Women are horniest when they are on their period. Some actually don’t mind sex during that time of the month.
- You don’t know women like that. Just because your friend told you his woman liked this, it doesn’t mean I will like it.
- TALK, TALK, TALK! You must communicate during sex. That way you both say what you want. Laughing is even welcome when things go wrong. That’s the whole point of sex, to have a good time. Give specifics and help each other to enjoy amazing sex!
*Side Note – Remember to practice safe sex. If you have sex without any form of contraception, then you may be at risk of a pregnancy (as well as a sexually transmitted infections).
My friend uBu has a Podcast that you should listen into. In this episode they talked about women who fake orgasms to keep their man happy. Like who would do something crazy like that?